
My lucky friends post Facebook pictures of bluebirds nesting near their houses making me long to see the beautiful creatures in my yard. Pushing down envy, I lament that we don’t have the right conditions to attract bluebirds. Poor me and all that.
Then my friend, Cliff, who knows more about bluebirds than I ever will suggests a place near the bottom of our yard.

I texted him a picture. You mean here?
“Yes, by the azaleas.”
But wait a minute, I ask. “Isn’t it too late? Aren’t they already nesting?”
“Yes, but you might get a pair for their second nesting,” he encourages.
My heart sings.

Humming, I set to work seeking an abode designed especially for bluebirds, and I order one online that night. But when I find it won’t arrive for almost a month, I cancel the order and do what I should have done in the first place.
The next day, I go out and buy one at Birds Unlimited, which makes me feel good on two counts. I’ve helped someone in my city while enjoying the immediate satisfaction of holding it in my hands.

I bring that bluebird house home and begin my campaign for Terry to install it — right away. But he’s a busy guy, building sets at Wildwood for Praeclara and doing his favorite thing–singing in the UALR choir. Not to mention getting a rent house ready to list.
So I remind myself — Give the Guy a Break.
There’s time for him to install that house when it fits into his schedule. After all, we’re in that waiting period.
Once again, I realize how impatient I get when I want something beause
I catch myself nagging
Just a little
until he buys a 4 x 4 post and brings out the posthole digger.
I give him instructions where to put it at the west end of our lower flowerbed.
But my man of vision suggests the opposite side where we will have a better chance of getting glimpses of blue as the birds come and go.
As usual, he’s right. I give the nod and he plants that baby firmly in the ground.
Having done all we can do, now we are waiting with hopeful hearts.

Then I resolve that if some other feathered friend takes up residence, I’ll be grateful—because they are all God’s creatures.
Still, I’m murmuring little prayers for flashes of blue at the its door.
You knew I’d find a lesson in this experience.
But aren’t there always lessons if we look for them?
- It’s okay to share your dreams.
- Two heads are better than one.
- It’s wise to accept advice.
- Waiting is hard.
- We learn patience by waiting.
- Prayer usually calms me.
Please tell me if you can think of others.
I’m always in need of a lesson.
A wise man will hear and increase in learning,
And a man of understanding will acquire wise counsel,
Proverbs 1:5
Love this post! I hope the sweetest bluebird couple take up residence in that lovely house built just for them!
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Thanks, Freeda. I’m going to use your pictures in my next post. I’m hoping.
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Wishing you the bluebirds of happiness always! Sweet, my dear friend…..brightened my day!
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I wish you and your guy the same! Love you, too.
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Thanks for filling me in with your bluebird details…plus fantastic photos of actual bluebirds in Arkansas! I agree with you in prayer…you’ve built it and they will come!!! Be sure to send photos of your nesters when they settle into domesticity in your back 40, please!
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Thank you, Pat! I love that response. I’ll let you know.
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As I look out my kitchen window I can see the bluebird house your daddy made for us. Wilbur delivered it after we had an Open House he and Winnie came to when we moved back to Searcy. It’s been housing Bluebirds for 24 years! Love my Bluebird house.
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I remember that! I’m so glad it’s still being occupied. A couple visited ours this morning. I’m encouraged.
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I absolutely love the lesson leaerned in this post. I am also trying to learn that patience is a virtue. Good luck on finding tenants for your Blue Bird Home ❤
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Thank you! A little blue couple checked out that house this morning. I wish you easy going in your quest for patience.
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Fingers crossed for a couple looking for a river view home.
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A cute little blue couple just toured that house!!
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