How will we know when it’s time to move this beloved woman to full-time nursing care?
When you can’t be with her 24/7, and you can’t be sure she won’t fall or turn right and go out the door instead of left and back to bed.
How can we expect her neighbors to do what we can’t?
You cannot.
How can we trust strangers to treat her with dignity?
Show up. Make friends. Pay attention. Speak up.
How will we recognize the right place?
What brings you peace?
How will we know what to say to her?
Ask Me for the right words.
How do I quiet the voice in my head? “I should do more. Someday, this could be me.”
Be still and Know that I Am God.
Open my ears, Lord, teach me to listen.
Trust Me.
Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. 24 I say to myself,
“The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.”
Lamentations 3: 22-24
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I'm a lover of God, mother of three, grandmother of eight, and a collector of friends. I like nothing better than talking, listening, laughing and eating with that crowd. My husband, Terry, and I feel blessed to wake up each day to a magnificent view of the Arkansas River. An amazing variety of creatures, from bobcats and coyotes to deer, bunnies and nutria, along with all sorts of birds roam the natural area behind our house. We also share our home with three silly kitties. I often find a lesson in what I see both indoors and out on any given day and usually find myself writing about it. I hope you'll join me in exploring the ways God speaks to us through His creation.
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So sorry you are going through this. I know this is a difficult time. You will make the right decision. She is lucky to have you.
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Thanks. I just have to trust that we will. We're so blessed to have had her love for so long. Want to do it right.
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So eloquent. Yes, you want to do it right, so you will. Hugs.
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You have all the right answers. Hard times. Praying for your family.
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Blessings on you and Terry during this decision-making time. Ecclesiastes enumerates the times for things. Perhaps this is one of them. xoxo
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Thank you. Hugs back to you!
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Thank you, friend.
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Thanks, Pat. That's what I'm thinking.
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Such difficult questions and choices, Dorothy. Sending you love and prayers as you find the right thing to do, and I'm sure you will. ♥
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